Would you say that it's only sexually assertive women that were attracted to him, or would you say he's only attracted to sexually assertive women?
I'd say that most women could potentially be attracted to him but it's only the assertive one's that can get his attention. Being coy with my H would never work. It would probably go right over his head. Good thing we're Yankees and he doesn't have to deal with those Southern Belles. No offense SouthernGirl.
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Since he never tried to be the aggressor, I suppose he'd naturally never become sexual with a sexually nonassertive person.
Probably not. My guess is that type of R/M for him would go down to some horrid baseline sexuality of maybe once or twice a year. I think he likes that I am more sexually assertive because it forces him to stop slacking off if that makes sense. He has said as much. He probably wouldn't put in the effort I have. LFL