you can keep hanging on and let him jerk you AND the girls around, or you can just shut the door and keep on going w/the divorce. The man wants you to be his side dish, to come to you for fun times and then walk away when he's had his fill.
You should know better by now, I wonder how your dds are feeling, protect them from this ignorant man for goodness sake!!!
You are worth more than the way he is pushing and pulling you around. Walk away and don't look back. You CAN find love again, you CAN have a happy family again without him!!
Or, you can pull yourself together, be at peace and then again let him in and destroy your save haven, and then let that happen over and over....
Do not put your girls and you at the mercy of this lunatic, you've given him PLENTY of chances and he's spat at each one.
Break all unnecesary contact w/him, send the D paper ASAP, try to go through the court or mediator to set up child visitation/payment so you dont' have to deal directly w/him. If he calls dont' let him ramble off, say your peace and hang up.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
