I'm really sorry about your sister. I can empathize with how you're fearful for your boys... I guess it's similar to my fear that I won't live past 46 (my mom was 46 when she died). Then add the fear you have for DH. Is he seeing anyone? I think my DH doesn't believe in depression even though he's seen it ("lived it") with me for years. I don't know if it's a guy thing or if it's just the stigma attached?
I was gonna say you could send the rain here for tonight, but you know I wanna take the boys to the planetarium... lol. You're brave for having so many teens over. Will you have help? Will your boys be there? Good luck... I hope you enjoy yourself as much as I'm sure your guests will!!
I went to the dollar store after the Y this morning and got airplanes, water guns and water balloons for the boys. 7yo says it's like we're having a party... LOL!!
Let me know how your party goes!! Have a good day!!