Interesting. Would you say that it's only sexually assertive women that were attracted to him, or would you say he's only attracted to sexually assertive women? I guess the women hitting on him at work were all sexually assertive. They'd have to be if they were hitting on him, right? Or maybe you'd say that those women were signalling in a nonassertive way, as a "bottom", and it went right over his head? Since he never tried to be the aggressor, I suppose he'd naturally never become sexual with a sexually nonassertive person.

In my case, a (then well-founded) lack of confidence meant that while I was attracted to all types of girls, I only ever got anywhere with sexually assertive girls (and by "anywhere" I mean kissing), and only a couple of those, and of those only one has ever expressed a desire to have sex with me that I've been able to detect.

Last edited by Crazy Eddie; 06/01/07 02:57 PM.
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