Our situation wasn't as extreme as honeypott's or LFL's, but reading her description and thinking back, my W became the "ideal bottom" at those times. I don't know who flipped first, but somehow she ended up letting me "take her", not as in passively letting me, but more like eagerly and enthusiastically letting me have my way with her. I felt it right away coming from her, kind of a relaxed eagerness as opposed to a determined, aggressive eagerness. Verrry sexy.
I used to think a sexually aggressive female was the ideal. It's still fun to deal with an aggressive female, but the relaxed eager female sort of "melting into me" that way is a kind of turn-on I never thought possible.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.