I seemed to bring out the unmanliness in him and he seemed to bring out the take-charge-fella in me.
I see the same dynamic in my M HP.
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I want to offer you some encouragement that your H possesses all that he needs to top your top, inside him, all guys do most likely. For that matter, all females possess inside them the ability to let their guys lead them and be a nice little wifey and that is a learning process, too. It is easier, however, to focus on the other person and what they may or may not have and that conveniently gets us off the hook, eh! IOW, he can't top your top until you learn how to be a better bottom.
Thanks for that HP. It is so true but hard for me to embrace. I do have to "let go" more. I think I will automatically become a better "bottom" if I do. I guess I fear that it won't make him a better "top" so I keep pluggin away and pushing when I should just be detaching somewhat. I need to think about that one some more. LFL
