"She will not admit she is in love with OM. But I feel she is. W told her family tonight about the new R with OM (even though she has lied since Feb). How do you tell how long it has been going, or how serious it is, they lie so much."
Why would you want / need to know this?
If it happened once or hundred times IT HAPPENED. Come on are you going to feel better if it happened 5 times instead of 6? Once is too many. Let it go. That is history we need to learn from history so we don't repeat our mistakes but we don't need to re live it.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
