You want to be with a woman who is strongly attracted to/aroused by concrete physical masculine characteristics like muscles,balls, c*ck. You also want to be with a woman who assertively acts on that attraction to enhance her arousal or get-off. I'm pretty object-oriented for a woman so I will do things like feel a guy's muscles or handle his c*ck in order to turn myself on more (of course usually two-way street.) That's the kind of behavior I think that you want. Unfortunately, most women tend towards contextual or atmospheric turn-ons rather than object-oriented turn-ons (me too, I'm just kind of off the curve), so you may need to think outside the box you've boxed yourself into.
P.S.- Interesting note for the men. Based on recent informal anecdotal convos I've had with HD women about female object-orientation, I would say more women are directly turned-on visually by big balls than a big c*ck. Makes sense if you think about it.
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