What are you talking about? I think you did great. Aside from the previous mistake of talking to her family but…….. In a way I wish I too made that mistake. We have been to a few faimily gatherings and I think to myself. “If they only knew” also when she is talking to my daughters I wish they knew what she did. But if we do work things out this could be one of our deep secrets that only you and your soul mate keep. Ya did great. You told her your feelings and did not dismiss hers. NOW don’t say them again. She heard you. Ya kind of have an advantage now that the family knows. They will do and say all the things your W does not want to hear You in the mean time will be the “Good Guy” in both the IL’s Eye’s and by supporting your W in her eyes. CLEAN OUT THE GARAGE. Make it pleasant for her to be home. If SHE wants to talk listen. Shake your head up and down say as little as possible. I’M rooting for ya andyv.
Great self control when she came home.
Be the guy on the side lines now let the game begin between your W the OM and you’re in laws. Sit on the bench and give your W an ear when she wants to talk about her feeling and what is going on in HER game. But she is not part of your inner circle (I like this inner circle thing) Right now your family consists of you and your daughter. Laugh, Play hard and get a good nights rest.
Husband
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Last edited by husband; 06/01/0701:24 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
