Think first..give your S the benefit of doubt

[peaceful_spirit]

Unlike women, men are very visual. They can get aroused by simply passing a woman on the street. Not what we women like to hear of our Hs, but it's true. My C told me that. It's why men are so much more into sex than women. Women need the emotional turn-on. Men do not. So looking at attractive women is completely normal. If he didn't do that, I might be concerned.

Cat,
how are things in your sitch? Thanks for providing your ongoing support to my latest rantings.