I like the email, I just don't know if I can get a response from him with an email that directly asks him for a plan of sorts. In the past when I've asked H what he wants from me, what he expects of me, he'll say he's taking it day by day. He doesn't give a straight answer to many of my questions. Nowadays he tells me I just need to stick around for at least a month. We were going on over two months and strong when I found out he lied to me, which I know still isn't very long, but it's longer than his sarcastic month. As much as I'd like him to step up and take some responsibility for the direction of this R, I'm just concerned that if he doesn't answer, my options seem fewer somehow. I guess my goal is to communicate, so based on H's personality, I should pick something that is going to get him going first and THEN, once an email pattern has been established, I can ask him about a plan. Does that make sense? I think for a first email to break the ice in this tension, I need to start with something less demanding. What do you think?
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
