Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

Thanks ladies!

I actually slept last night. I am going out with GFs tonight, will hit some garage sales tomm. The kids are with H tonight and Sat. night. D(almost 13) does not even want to go - she is getting mad at H and I have asked her to talk to him. She's afraid he'll get mad at me and I told her that is not the case. She's saying stuff like if you and dad D then I do not want to live with him....she's imagining the worse already (like her mom)...

We do have S9 first baseball game Sat. afternoon- obviously he wants me there do I go and sit apart from H - this is weird how do I handle this one? Most people do not know we are separated (for the kids sakes at this time). I am not sure if I should go? They have games ea. Tues/Thurs until we leave for vacation 6/23 - so six games. Do we just swap which ones we go to? That's how our D friends did it last year - is that how it would be in D. I am sure every sitch is different...

Thanks again for all your support! Feel a little better today and each day will get better.