I have been doing the "I'm sorry you feel that way" comment for quite sometime now. I did not get me anywhere. It was like going down cheeseless tunnels. It was time to try something new. I also told her that I was disappointed in her that she has been able to lie to herself and convince herself that this is the only option.
One thing that I forgot to mention was that my W asked for a hug towards the end of the conversation. I believe this was her way of showing that we do not hate each other. I did not jump up and give her a hug I kept the conversation going for another few minutes and she asked for a hug again. After she asked me a second time I gave her a hug. It was nice hugging her and not have her push me away. She hung onto me longer then I expected she would. She let me crack her back like I used to do on a daily basis when I gave her a hug. Though I am not reading into it much, it was one really nice gesture that occured.
