Frank-I have no proof that she is involved in a PA with the OM anymore. As far as I know, she is seeing him at work and possibly seeing him outside of work on a limited basis. I am basing this on the fact that she is around so much when she doesn't have the kids.
In comparison to earlier, befofre she moved out, I don't feel that she is seeiing him as much. She has all the time in the world to talk to him on the phone.
So based on this, I haven't "gone dark", because it seems to me that she is confused and deciding.
The adultery I was rambling about last night is the feelings of the fact of what she has done. I was really and still am really down. Just don't know why......
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......