A few Brews on the beach are you sure you are not in California?
Dude I agree with WTB she is "nicer” now because the pressure of the secret has been released. Now her guard the little wall she has put up around her is weaker. She is no longer part of your "inner circle" (as WTB put it). As far as I have come with My W I still do not consider her part of my inner circle. My son and I are the only club members right now. Yes she is doing things for me but I'm still not impressed. Is she doing it because she is sorry or because she feels guilty? I do not care to analyze it right now. I will not analyze it right now. I figure it's like they say about love. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT HAPPENS. What happened to cleaning the garage? Remember yes you need to GAL but if you want to repair your R ya gota work on that at the same time. Like you have done I too have started doing some things that I have not done in years. I never found the time for myself. But doing things for you can involve doing things for others. Think of the workout you will get cleaning the garage. You will get the satisfaction of accomplishing something you have put off. When done you can see what you have done. Then move on to your next project be it a few brews with some buds or playing ball with the daughter. Its things like this that your W will notice on her own. Have the counters clean of dirty dishes when the W gets home. You would be doing these things if you were on your own anyway right? Ya kind of have to pretend it's just you and your daughter living there right now. Acknowledge your W. but she is like a neighbor right now. Don't talk about the OM. don't talk about R. I could tell ya some things you could do to make the OM uncomfortable but I don't think you have detached enough yet. Soon though bud soon
As for the hug from my W never happened. It didn’t feel right. Maybe this weekend though we’ll see
Husband
Last edited by husband; 06/01/0711:42 AM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
