I understand. Is there a better word since I say that to you all the time? LOL!! DH says things like "We've known each other longer than anyone" and "we have so much history". I'm really sorry about your sister. (((hugs)))
Yeah, even though it was only with GF last night (her DH works out of town during the week), I still felt odd man out. She was talking to one of her friends about the dance lessons and how another place has free shag lessons. GF said "but you need a partner for that, right?" and her friend said "that or a husband". I swear it was like a punch to the chest.
My C finds it weird that I don't talk about my mom. But when I do I cry. She died in 1985 not even a month after I turned 18. Needless to say, it was not an easy time. My sister was 16 and my mom's will said if we were underage, we were to go live with her brother. I had to go to court to fight for custody. I won, but we never heard from that uncle again. Of course, I had to say some not so kind things about him and his wife and they were true, but still. My sister and have vowed to never treat each other's kids like that. DH was with me through that. I don't like to think about it, let alone talk about it.
I had a dream last night I went to see a D lawyer. I did right after his A to find out what my rights were. Felt like I had none... LOL!! I asked if I could sue OW for alienation of affection, but it's not something you can do here in SC. You can in NC, but not here. Anyway, in my dream last night, I went back to this attorney. I saw her associate last time, but I saw her this time. She asked if I was sure and I said I wasn't, but that DH was and she told me not to do it. I also had bad dreams about him not wanting the boys and instead choosing to go out with friends. Then I woke up and couldn't get back to sleep.
You know what? I just realized I haven't talked to DH about R all this week. Woo hoo!! Probably why my posts have been so long lately... LOL!!
Love your Wild Librarians Dancing Club... LOL!! And the wet t-shirt contest. Sounds like something I'd say to my kids... LOL!!! With the same reactions, of course!!
I'm reading Stuart Woods' "Short Straw". I just finished James Patterson's 7th (Whatever). I have Dean Koontz's new one, The Good Guy and one by Faye and Jonathan Kellerman. Yes, MOST of the books I have are relationship self help books. Have you read Women Are From Venus, Men Are From Mars? I have that one, but haven't opened it. I think I'm burned out on self help.
I have no plans for today. I think DH is taking 16yo to the movies tonight. Maybe I'll take the younger ones to the science center for their planetarium show. DH probably has to work tomorrow... they're laying off people and then requiring "mandatory OT"! At least he wasn't laid off, but his friend... the one he had dinner with last week? He's on the list. Anyway, tomorrow there's a plane exhibit thing at a small local airport, so I'll take the boys to that, then Sunday is Atlanta. I'll be honest, before I would not have done this stuff on my own. But then that goes back to remorseful thoughts, right?
Good luck with your party. I hope it doesn't rain!!!!
Needless to say, it was not an easy time. My sister was 16 and my mom's will said if we were underage, we were to go live with her brother. I had to go to court to fight for custody. I won, but we never heard from that uncle again. Of course, I had to say some not so kind things about him and his wife and they were true, but still. My sister and have vowed to never treat each other's kids like that. DH was with me through that. I don't like to think about it, let alone talk about it. 
At least he wasn't laid off, but his friend... the one he had dinner with last week? He's on the list. 
