I mean I will be the same person I was minus the last 2 years (with being away with work, leaving her with the construction of our new house, not being there emotionally, leaving her to raise our daughter due to my work committments, being self absorbed with my own trial and tribulations and not catering for her needs and wants).
And yes, I will be an improvement on the previous model, and not only rectify my shortcomings over the last few years, but improve on my old self.
Thx for making me clear that up, it did sound bizaar in my post when I stated it.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."