And hopefully when she hits rock bottom, it will hit her harder seeing that I am the same person she has loved for 17 years.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!
Sorry to be the guy to point out the obvious, but isn't that the guy that LOST her attention? Isn't your 180 and GAL activity about making you a BETTER MAN than you were before she said she didn't love you anymore?
Don't put all this work into yourself, just to be your OLD self. You're hitting the gym, changed your hair, probably bought some new clothes right? Guess what, my wife had an A with a guy 15 years younger and I did these things too. Still doing them, but for me now. If she decides to come back, I'm so NOT going to be the guy she's been with for the last ten years because I know she doesn't want that guy anymore, and when I think about it, he did need some tweaking. Do you?
Last edited by DadNotQuitting; 06/01/0709:38 AM.
Me: 39 WAW: 40 S10, D7, S6 Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA) Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you) Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you) Move out again: 4-29-07 Dark: 6-8-07
