HB, take care and yes, GAL. When things were bad with h, I joined a bowling group by myself without knowing anyone there. First time I did that in my life. it was good and I made friends. (I was in a safe town so i was blessed this way not having to worry about meeting stalkers and such). Call up old friends. I realize how many of them are actually SO willing to go out and hang out. guess most of our lives are actually pretty boring. I sense that your h is still confused deep inside. He seems civil so really there is no hurry. Use this time truly for yourself. Go sit in a coffeeshop and read a whole book (no R book), just like the movies, and let h have the kids. I will say probably very few of us married with kids folks have done that for a while. You are doing great. To see you bounce back so quickly is AMAZING. You are STRONG. Take care.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
