welcome to my nightmare

[WAW in the OC]

Husband,
You are better off not talking to the OM. I too know where my W's boyfriend works, his phone#, his myspace page. I too have been a snooper and you are both right in that it only hurts more when I find out. I have decided to reduce if not eliminate my snooping.

It is really making me upset when I find out what my W is doing on her "business trips" with OM. I should say BF because he is only 22. And we have 3 beautiful kids, she has no idea what she is doing.

Today I really broke down and balled my eyes out to my sister and BIL. All because of what I found out by snooping. I was doing so good with GAL and PMA then I broke down. I haven't cried like that in weeks. My advice, stop the snooping. It only breaks your heart!