Good for you for confronting her. I think it is best to confront right away. Boy oh boy it has to be hard for her to see the error in her ways right now. Expecially with the kiddos knowing. How humiliating. Well, maybe for some people. I know I would be.
Choc I pray for strength for you. I know this has to be hard. I am so proud of you for calling her out on the carpet and for fighting for your marriage!
I don't want to say much, but I have to comment that in the last week or so, Choc has grown a pair the size of cannonballs.
I mean to tell you that the man is having to walk with skid-plates to keep the sparks down.
Absolutely HUGE.
Way to go Choc.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
I am so excited to hear this news (and the NOP-version) - I cannot wait until we're at a juncture to spill the details. It's great to sit on the curb and cheer this parade.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Choc, I lived and breathed those verses through the A.
You can do it my friend. You ARE doing it. I can't tell you how excited I am for you (which must seem crazyfied from the middle of difficulty, but oh, I see so much good going on in you. woohoo!)
Cadesmom, if you're asking about the verses - the bible is for everyone, sister! (mine are from The Message translation, i.e. plain English)
But if you're asking about NOP, take a number (ha). I'd love him in my pocket as a Life Advisor too!
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
