Ok, I know that I said that I would have nothing to report tonight but I do. My W kept her word and saw her lawyer today. Our kids where at my parents house so she had plenty of time to see her lawyer. But the reason that I know she saw her lawyer is that she left some papers out on the counter that could have only come from a lawyer. I do not know what she did today. Maybe she hasn't done anything, though I find that highly unlikely at this point.
My plan rightnow for when we have this discussion is to tell my W to talk to my lawyer. I will not let her know my intentions or even the reputation of my lawyer. She is going to figure that out on her own.
So if there is anybody out there that has been in the shoes that I am about to fill any advice would be appreciated.