How wonderful! This is the hope that I am looking for. So many people on her have so much hope that their spouse will come back. Well, that is a hope that is slim and that you cannot control. But you can have a hope that you will make a better life for yourself.

Just yesterday my mother said "I hope H is miserable with that woman after what he has done to you." I said "No, I want him to be happy with her because he is my children's father and then they will be happier." I really meant it at that time and want to continue to feel that way. I am angry right now with what he has done but I want us both to be happy in our lives.

Thank you for this inspiration.


Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years
MLC Divorced 10/3/07
Married to a wonderful new man.