Nic,

So you mean H can't have his cake and eat it too. Poor guy! Boy that man is in for one heck of a reality check. I'd keep the M legal, strecth out the D as long as you can, but really press the financial separation. He's done spent all his money on his pretty little GF and now he wants you to foot the bill. Oh she and he are in for one heck of a wake up call.

Hang in there, lets see what a little tough love does for ya/him!

God Bless,

COG


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