Originally Posted By: chromosphere
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That's pretty sad... having sex without guilt or fear is the only way you could possibly do it well.

For that matter, living most of your life without guilt or fear is the best way to achieve and be happy.


Agreed. But speaking for myself (and probably a few others around here), guilt and fear are the only ways we have known from our childhood on.


I hear you. I've been struggling with the same thing, although I have far less excuse than you do.

Somehow I don't think your upbringing and your wife's upbringing were what Jesus had in mind.

a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.