I get the point j and I've done most of those and think the rest of them (except maybe #11, I'm not there... yet). I'd still trade places with you at this point you lucky woman!
You're on your own rollercoaster instead of H's now, I'm in a similar place right now, I'm on a down swing of my own emotions, not because my W is on the down swing. I haven't figured out how get control of my ride, but I'm workin' on it.
Take care j, -JDK
PS: I don't know how much you email, but you can always try me at jdknow@gmail.com