I planned on talking to a lawyer before making this offer to my W. I think I understand what your saying about the reverse psychology in letting them making their own choices and not out of spite. Isn't that what I would be doing by making this offer? I am telling her and helping her go.... She then needs to decide if this is what she truely wants - right? I also understand what Next is saying about playing games. It does seem that I am playing a game by making a move like this. I guess I will sitback and see what she brings my way.
My W is working tonight, so there should be nothing new to report on. She is planning on bringing our kids to the pool most of the day Saturday and will probably be bringing them to her new church on Sunday. So what am I to do? GAL.. I will workout, go golfing on Sunday, catch a movie, grab a beer with a friend...
I am also planning to get my W car an oil change this Saturday. I'll let her take my car and then take her car in. Maybe she will let me maybe she won't, again who knows.