I can view our joint checking and his credit card online. There is something on his credit card that I'm not sure what it is. Seems/sounds suspicious to me, but I'm thinking I'm am going to sit back & wait for 2 reasons: 1. then he will know I'm monitoring on a regular basis and 2. don't want to "start" anything long distance if it isn't anything.
I guess I am the suspicious one and just asking "hey what's this" might not even bring any red flags up w/ him if he's not "doing" anything he shouldn't be.
Or do I let it go for awhile?
I really would like to just be able to talk to him about stuff -- I guess I still feel like I'm on eggshells a lot, but then again, I don't want to "start" anything long distance that could escalate out of control under the circumstances. I think I'm doing the best thing for right now --
what do you guys think?
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
