Hi Nop I think what I mean is that HD women are more likely to challenge the man when it comes to sex. Maybe almost in a competitive way? Not sure if that is exactly it or not. If I think of your M (and I may be way off here), my sense is that you are the clear leader in the SL department and MrsNop follows that lead. You have a higher drive than her and because of that, you are able to be more assertive/aggressive (a very masculine trait) without her having to jumpstart the dynamic. In my M, I tend to be the one to make the more aggressive/assertive move first. Something I don't like to do because I consider myself feminine and do not want to take on that masculine role. Now if I am with an Alpha male, he would have to be super assertive/aggressive with me to not have me tempted to jump on top of him first. See what I mean? If I do the "jumping" it doesn't give him a chance to take on that role. He might feel like I am too aggressive for a woman and that might turn him off. What do you think? LFL
