Relax MrsCac. It was just a joke. I'm quite aware of the "puritanical" angle. I am part of that society too you know, but I don't see myself as a "victim." And THAT is part of the problem too. Lots of women get "pissed off" at other women for speaking their own dammmm minds. Why can't we have different views on these issues? I'm not ashamed to discuss it. You mentioned breast feeding, I had no interest. Didn't do it. Guess that makes me a bad mom. Women love to yell at me for that one too. Whatever. My mom raised six kids on formula and we seem no worse for wear. I did the same. I guess the real issue is why do women get insulted/defensive when I make these statements, whether it's about motherhood, sexuality, HD vs LD, whatever? LFL