It sounds like most men are NOT going to let go of that fear. I'm sure many of the men on this board, if not most, believe everything cac and others have written. I'm positive Lou does. He said as much.
as well they should...cuz its a fact.
Originally Posted By: Crazy Eddie
He probably doesn't suspect you of harboring a secret plot to do that, but it may be that he internalized it as "the right way to treat a woman" to keep her from being unhappy.
exactly. at least, within the bounds of a LTR. on a "date", with a stranger? (which is what MJ was talking about originally)...not so much.
But anyway, that's what I mean about the subconscious mind. It takes complex concepts and pares them down to their core message. "oject x =bad". "behavior y = bad". like Frankenstein's monster: "FIRE...B A D!!!! RUNNNN!!!!!!". In this particular case, the more complex PC notions of late 20th century sexual relations are pared down and saved in the subC as Crazy Eddie says. "women don't like that". or "agressive=BAD!!".
