Hey,

I just wanted to put my 2 cents in here if I could. I don't know your sitch but this post caught my eye. My H left for the first time in 8/05 he moved in with ow. WE started flirting an having sex in like 3/06. He came home in 7/06. He sais the same things your H is saying to you. He would say he hoped that no matter what happened we could always have sex. And he would say numerous other things I will not repeat on here. I think it is their way to reconnect just make sure he treats you with respect in other parts of your life right now. sometimes he will pull away after sometimes not. But my h told me he just couldn't imagine another man having sex with me and it bothered him that he would think about tht after we did the deed LOL. I don't know if there is an ow with your sitch but I always made sure it was the best sex everytime just so she couldn't compare.

But my story doesn't have a happy ending- he left again in march /april this year with me 7 months pregnant b/c he couldn't handle a family ( we have 5 kids now) so tak e my advice as just my experience . Hope yours turns out better

Love,Lisa


Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12