LDW are not ruining your sex life. LDW are not responsible for HDW not being accepted in society either. This issue you're discussing here is much bigger than that. I would say it's the result of our Puritanistic society, of which LDW and HDW are both "victims." I get pissed off whenever I see women polarizing over issues, whether it's sex or breast feeding or the SAHM/WOHM controversy. Why do we do this?