JR, that is exactly my sitch with H. We were rolling along just fine and then I find out he has been super passive and lost his own ideas and individuality in the process! BAM, H wants to separate with no discussion, no second chances, no warning...it still blows my mind how he thought that approach was easier than just talking to me about his feelings but it happened and we have gotten some issues straightened out.
I will look up that Cunningham guy's info. Mars and Venus also opened up my eyes to just how different we are, even though we seem like the male/female version of one another. H is a different person than I had thought because we had morphed into a partial version of our selves since we were both compromising too much for the M. Thanks for replying!
