You know what, [censored] happens. Unfortunately it's happening to us, but there's nothing we can do about it other than put all our faith and trust in God that he is watching over us and all this will be for our greater good.
One thing that REALLY poisoned my wife was our difficulty having kids. She really resented all our friends who were kicking out kids like pez dispensers. Then when we finally do have a child, she isn't happy with just him! He's a MIRACLE BOY and she was only concerned with having more. We've had doctors tell us we shouldn't even have him! Me, I'm totally stoked with my wife and son, she wants more. I even think that's part of the reason we're getting D'd! She actually said to me one time, "What's the purpose of being together if we're not going to have more kids?" I think it made her even more upset when I asked her why the two of us aren't enough for her. She said we are, but the proof is in the pudding...
So, don't beat yourself up because other people APPEAR to have great marriages, you don't know, and there could be a SEA of turmoil under the glossy exterior. Worry about yourself and getting yourself right, God will take care of the rest. Believe it, live it, be happy.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
