That is a good thing. She also just called me a minute ago again, to come over for dinner. She left it on my voice mail. This is about the time I decline again, but think I will pass on the DB'ing approach and go because of the circumstances. That and I could use a good meal, my cooking sucksssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
One of her problems is, no not picking on her, is that she is not overly emotional, but I know she has to be about her grandmother. I want nothing more than to show up in a bit, tell her how sorry I am about her loss and give her a warm hug. That is one of those don't blow it moments.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Great Idea, start with the PMA and watch it grow into other positive things in your life.
Here's one I do all the time. I NEVER say I need my W back, I always said I WANT my wife back. Well, that's TRUE, but would I rather WANT her back or HAVE her back. So I keep in my mind the W and S and I ARE TOGETHER. It feels good and you can keep those needy feelings out of your head.
By the way, you can do that with anything - would you rather WANT it or HAVE it, and start thinking along those lines - I HAVE XYZ...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Well I survived dinner. Nothing negative nor positive happened other than I was over with her and S. I hope I did not make one mistake, babysitters have always been hard for us, so since I know her parents will be here for the next few days, I asked her out to dinner for friday or saturday.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
