My goodness, you must really want your M work. He needs counseling, plain and simple. He's had 2 affairs and gave you the ILYBNILWY speech? He's either depressed or confused. Unless you're a professional conselor, I'm not sure you can help. I've got to hand it to you, I wouldn't have the strength to put up with what you're putting up with. Suggestion, don't let yourself be his doormat.
