Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

Well H's IC appt lasted 30 mins - he was done talking. He said C said that he is thinking clearly and he knows what he wants. So we are going to divorce. Not sure what planet the C is from at this point.

Not sure when, how to file, tell the kids, find the condo, move....feeling very overwhelmed.

We are so civil w/each other that we probably will not even use lawyers or use the same one. I will consult with a few on my own but H will be more than fair to me and the kids. We are so go

I need some recommendation on books to read and how to get through this - I will probably post in the Divorce forum here to get started. I know I seem to be taking it so fast - but I truly feel he is done and has been done for a lot longer than I thought. I cannot keep banging my head on that brick wall. I figure I need to get the kids settled b4 school starts in Sept. - we will stay in the same school district. Hell I probably will be less than 3 miles from the house. I do not want the house (too much upkeep) but I do want my fair share...

I think I am in shock - cannot really cry here at work. I tried to cry last night but nothing really came of it. I think I am cried out and now I at least have a real direction...

Thanks for all the hugs - I really need them now!

HB