I watched a classic movie this weekend, well part of it anyway. It's a scene from a John Wayne movie "The Quiet One". Duke plays an American boxer who returns to his native Ireland. Anyway, the classic scene is at the end of the Movie.
I don't know quite what sets him off, but he starts pulling his wife by the arm, out the door and down the road. He's obviously pulling her somewhere, even dragging her sometimes. She trips, he gets a grip on her collar and just drags her. All the townsfolk are following them because they know there's gonna be a showdown between John Wayne, and his wifes bully of a brother. So Wayne just pulls and drags this woman for five miles to the brothers house. Along the way people are cheering, and one smiling woman even hands him a stick to smack his wife with. The wife is a little shaken, but knows better than to fight it, Wayne is in total control of her, and hell bent on where he's going.
So he gets to the brothers house and demands money owed him. Well the brother slaps his face. So Wayne just tosses his wife back to the brother and says "fine, you keep HER then". So the bully brother thinks about it and then gives Wayne the money, at which point Wayne throws the money in the fire. So then the wife jumps up with a huge smile, and tells Wayne she'll be getting home to get his supper ready and she runs off.
So now Wayne and the bully brother start a good old brawl. They fight over hill and dale, through creeks and hay stacks and all kind of stuff. All the townsfolk, even the priests, are watching, cheering, and taking bets. So anyway they fight for a long time, and then end up in the bar and get drunk. Finally they stagger home together, arm in arm, like lifelong friends. When they get home, Wayne throughs open the door, sits down at the dinner table and tells his wife to hurry up with dinner. Of course she has dinner ready an everything in order. I'll bet the sex was over the top that night.
Well I'll tell you that John Wayne had style, charisma, a true machismo dude. He did'nt need guns and knives, just grit. He's been dead a long time now, but his manhood still survives.
I't got me thinking maybe MY W needs a good ass whoopin! That's a 180 I have'nt tried yet.
No guts no glory,
COG
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I't got me thinking maybe MY W needs a good ass whoopin! That's a 180 I haven't tried yet.
Just make sure she's wearing that leopard-print teddy when you do it!
I agree with Ali - you are a wonderful H. Maybe you weren't always, but you are NOW, and that's what counts.
Speaking of Ali...
You are so HOT, girl!! Your husband is one lucky, lucky guy!
It takes two to have a great sex life, and two to have a bad one. H and I had a sucky sex life (not in a good way ) and for a long time I blamed myself, but it was both of us.
I don't want to use up your thread, COG, so I'll just say that next time, I'll choose a better partner, and I'll be more accepting of myself. I really think that knowing your partner loves you and loving yourself are the two keys to great sex.
So, COG, your W's gotta work on loving herself!
~Nicola
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan
Just make sure she's wearing that leopard-print teddy when you do it!
Oh, the visions THAT creates in mind. Thanks!
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I'll just say that next time, I'll choose a better partner, and I'll be more accepting of myself
More accepting of yourself, and hopefully more accepting of the white hot passion you deserve when you let loose the fury, no fear, no boundaries, no guilt, no Ms good girl, nothing to hold you back. Give it ALL and GET it all!!
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So, COG, your W's gotta work on loving herself!
Oh you got that right sista. I spent a long time helping her know how she falls short. She deserved much better from me, and she's finally getting it now.
Love,
COG
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It's great having my own personal consulting team. You are truly special people, and I am truly blessed to have you!
As we are to have you!
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Alright so I saw an opportunity yesterday, and I put on my John Wayne hat.
Long Story Short: W is preparing for a 24 hour bike race in a couple of weeks. Now her history is that she'll do a race like that, then not bother to rest afterwards, until she just about drops dead, then she's in bed for two or three days. So, I sent her a note that basically said that the day after her race I'm taking the day off work to handle the kids so she can do nothing but rest. I went on to say that I would personally kick her cute little butt if she did anything else but rest. Here was part of her response
"Thanks for the beautiful thoughts and intentions! Seems all you have to do is suggest something wonderful and it makes me smile.........."
Oh ya, see this John Wayne attitude is working already. I think Frankd would approve. I gonna keep my spurs and chaps on for awhile and see if I can't just tame this wild little filly. I'm an Alpha male, and it's about time I started acting like one!
God Bless,
COG
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WTG COG - you are starting to reap the benefits of your labour.
Perhaps we might both be racing to the finish line yet huh?
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Perhaps we might both be racing to the finish line yet huh?
Oh I think you and I are in a race alright, but I think we're racing to the starting line instead of the finish line. I'm thinking you are definately in the lead right now, but I'm still in it. It's like the Baha 1,000, you go flying across the desert, hitting one obstacle after another, things breaking down, repairs needed, but you just fix as best you can and get back out on the track.
God Bless The Struggle,
COG
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One BIG advantage you have is you are going on vacation - that is always a nice relaxing time no? And you can't get much more romantic than Vancouver Island. However, there is the "obstacle" of 4 additional "peeples" on board - lol
Sure will be interesting to see which one of us reaches the "starting" line first (you are right, that will be a beginning, not the end)
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
) and for a long time I blamed myself, but it was both of us.