Believe it or not, I am trying that. Today for instance, S6 called me from CW's house to tell me he wanted to go hunting with me this afternoon. Anyone out there who hunts knows what a joy it is to have a 6 yo with you when trying to call a turkey in. Anyway, when he was talking, I heard CW say that she wanted the phone. He was still talking and when he got done, I said goodbye and hung up. In the past, I would have had him put her on.
Later, CW called to say that she was dropping off some of S6's stuff. Normally, this could have been done later or she could have just stopped by. She came by and I took the bag from her and talked for only a second and said good bye and have a good day. With the kids, it is hard to totally be less responsive, but I am trying.
I fought the urge to ask her about Sat night. She hasn't replied to my e-mail, and I won't ask again......
Man this is hard today.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......