One of my 180s Frank is that I never took the initiative to plan any outings for us. I am sort of content to sit around or hang out at home and watch the idiot box.
The two theories contradict, so I am trying to float the idea, and then let her follow through if she wants to go.
I understand, what I'm thinking is you become a little less responsive than you have been. Kind of give her a chance to miss her interactions with you.
