Do you want your wife to NEED you back or to WANT you back?
That is a great question. Neediness is such a deal-killer. I thought my W would like that I was making such a fuss over her and it just turned me into a complete wuss. I think that's why being lovingly detached works. The time and space makes them miss us. We have to somehow provide that feeling to them while we're together too. We all need that time and space to be ourselves and feel value in ourselves.
Kausion, sounds like things are going well with you. Glad to hear it.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
