That's just the way it is today, ladies. You can't have it both ways.
I disagree. It is no different than a man saying he wants a "good girl" outside the bedroom and a "freak" inside the bedroom. Women have been been listening to that line forever. Men should be capable of the same thing. My H is a "good guy" most of the time but I don't want him "nice" in the bedroom. Granted, it may be harder for people to switch on and off like that but I think I can do it fairly well. People who know me at work have this idea of me as very prim and proper, lol. They would probably be shocked by some of what I write here, and what I enjoy in me personal life. That's normal I guess but I don't think it has to be one way or the other. I little variety makes things interesting. I want a man who can be good and bad. And when I say "bad", I guess it's technically not bad at all, because I'm really encouraging that behavior. So is it ever really "toppping my top?" No, because I LET him. I know BF hates when I say that. LFL
