Cobra, I am so reactive to you at times because I often see in you some of the same traits I see in my H. That alone is enough to get me going
What I often feel is that you are not interested in knowing me, in hearing me, in understanding me. You are interested in proving a point, being right. And all of your comments are based around proving that point and because you want to be right, you will keep pressing. You don't listen to what people are saying to you, you assume that people deflect, deny and defend their faults. You don't trust. Maybe that's the bottom line. This is very much how my H is. Honestly. Do you ever hear what someone says and accept it for what it is-their truth?

With that being said, I still value your input.

Last edited by heatherg; 05/31/07 02:28 PM.

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