Next, I agree with Husband and Andy. Good Job. Like you said we are in similar sitch. I actually started thinking that I would suggest to my W that I give her the money for her new home and tell her if this is what is going to make you happy I want you to be happy. I think I am taking the advice from the book "Love must be Tough" about opening up the cage door a little further then Dr. Dobson had in mind. I haven't totally decided on this yet but it seems like a crazy next step that might help.
