I concur with Husbands thoughts. Sounds like "rock bottom" is not too far away for your W.
And it is a great lesson for everyone, use as few words as possible. I have been guilty of overwording our conversations and the talks sort of go "pear" shaped with W over anylizing everything.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
