Don’t get too excited but it sounds to me her lala land is collapsing. You handled it very well. Her feeling are just that her feelings. As for going out for a beer GO. If anything between you and your wife comes up I would let him know thanks for the concern but you and the wife are working on it. And drop it. If you want respect from the wife. I know it is going to be hard but you have to respect her wishes also. I would not even discuss R with the neighbor. Ya just want to go out for the night and leave your problems at home and enjoy the friend ship.
“She then said something interesting in her spew.”For years I have been complaining, and now that I have the husband I always wanted, it's too late."
Sounds like to me she is TRYING TO validate her own feelings. I think this brings up a doubt in her mind if it is really too late.
“LESSION HERE: USE AS FEW WORDS AS POSSIBLE”Good work
“She also wanted to know if I thought she should be looking for houses now. (She has 6 viewings tomorrow)”
What? She is the one that want’s to move why would she be asking you this? Again uncertainty that she is doing the right thing
I did throw out my thinking about renting a place. She was a little thrown off by it, but didn't let it show too much. I guess she thinks if I rent a place, she will still go buy a place ASAP and just leave the house empty.
Maybe the reality that you can and will move on is clearing the fog a little for her.
Ok toss the renting a place out for now. You made your point with her. You are doing great. The tide is turning..
Husband
Last edited by husband; 05/31/0711:49 AM.
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