No! You are not being unreasonable. Do not let your H move back until you are ready, and are seeing the positive changes that you need to see. My humble opinion, of course!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim