Ah! Putting into practice what you know (intellectually) you have to do.
The age old problem.
Heck! For all I know, my W is trying to figure out how she can D me.
Am I serenely letting it all happen? Yeah. Kinda. I don't know what happened to me, but the whole idea - which would formerly have me in a panic - doesn't.
Oh yeah. It bothers me. I think about it all the time. But I don't know why it hasn't put me in a funk.
I guess my point is that ya just do what ya have to do, KAW.
Not sure if I'd ask to talk about her counseling. It's still kinda like prying, and you may not like what you hear anyway.
The thing is, KAW. If her C tells her stuff that you disagree with, you'll feel even more insecure, and you'll convey the impression to your W that you're still trying to control her feelings.
Talking things out is good. Talking things out while your W hasn't figured things out is bad.
Not sure if I'm making sense, KAW. What I'm trying to get at is that if you discuss something that her C has said - and particularly if it's something you disagree with - when she's still trying to figure out if she agrees with her C or not, you could push the balance in the wrong direction.
