How intersting that she's looking at legal separation as opposed to divorce.... that indicates at least a wee bit of reserve about divorce....
Just keep working out. The endorphins released during exercise will help give you PMA (positive mental attitude) which you'll need regardless of where everything goes. It sounds to me like you are doing your best. Quite honestly... I'm still trying to avoid my own personal MLC... that's a whole nother story (sometimes a spouse's MLC can ignite one's own personal MLC....). Oh well... back to you...
Breaks in interaction are good. Sometimes they need breaks to cool down. Distance can be healing. I think you are doing awesome. Keep up the workouts.... I want to hear about those abs!!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
